Looking for Mr. Right

Do you think you’ve found Mr. Right on an online dating site? Do you want to be sure that he is the one? Do you know the clues that can help you to know for sure? Finding the right guy can be difficult. However, if you think you have already found him, put your guy to the test and find out for sure if he is the one.

Is he as interested in you as you are in him?

Finding the right guy means finding a guy that is just as interested in you as you are in him. He should welcome you with open arms when he sees you. Frequent calls and text messages will let you know that he is thinking about you even when you are not around. Frequent touches and compliments tell you that you are the object of his affection.

Would you be his friend, even if he wasn’t your guy?

Is he the kind of person that you would want to be friends with? Finding the right guy means finding a life-long friend. Building your relationship as friends and lovers is important for a lasting and loving relationship. His qualities that attract you in a relationship must also be the qualities that would attract you in a friendship.

He respects you.

Does he treat you with kindness? Does he place your happiness above his? Does he find enjoyment in seeing you happy and successful? These are clues that he respects you. He should be willing to compromise, even in difficult matters, so that both of you can be happy and fulfilled. He shouldn’t put you down, and he should never hit you.

How does he treat your waitress?

This tip to finding the right guy may seem completely off the wall. However, studies have shown that the way a person treats service personnel is a good indicator to how he will treat you in the future. In the beginning phases of a relationship, he wants to impress you. He has no reason to want to impress your waitress. People tend to be consistent in how they treat others, except in the beginning phases of a relationship. If he is respectful to the people that serve him, he will be respectful to you. However, if he is rude or constantly complains about the service, he might be hiding something from you.

He loves you for you

The right guy will love you for who you are. You should not feel rejection or a lack of admiration for making a mistake. He shouldn’t have unrealistic expectations of you, and he should never expect you to change who you are. Guys who expect these things are bad news. Your guy should adore your personality, not want you to change it.

He lets you in on his life

The right guy will be ecstatic to introduce you to people that are important to him. Meeting his friends, family, and co-workers will show you who he is, even when you aren’t around. Also, his willingness to share these special people with you means that he doesn’t have anything to hide from you. If you are going to share your lives together, he should want to share his life with you.

Your best friend approves

Finding the right guy for your family can sometimes be impossible. However, if your best friend adores your guy and comments on how well he treats you, you have earned the next best approval stamp. Your best friend has your interest in mind and doesn’t want to see you hurt. If she thinks that he is bad news, she will let you know. Even if she doesn’t say it out loud, she will let you know by avoiding being around him, wincing when you mention his name, or rolling her eyes when you talk incessantly about him.

Finding the right takes time. It also requires you to take an objective look at your relationship, which can be difficult to do. Allow those that you trust and love to help you determine if a guy is right for you. If your gut tells you it’s the wrong relationship for you, then listen. However, if you know in your heart it is right and you have the green light from those that love you, then, by all means, go for it!